A guy tried to kiss me [24F] when I didn’t want to and I have a boyfriend[25M] of 5 months

I love my boyfriend dearly and would never cheat. I was at a party without my boyfriend talking to a guy I have met before. We were talking about how I was a little upset my boyfriend chose to not come with me. All of a sudden, he grabbed me and tried to kiss me…I pushed him off and said “Stop I have a boyfriend!” and immediately began to cry. My friend saw it all happen and said he initiated it.

I am now scared to tell my boyfriend in fear he thinks I did something/wanted to kiss him when I didn’t. I don’t want this to ruin our relationship but I need to tell him and don’t know how to go about it.

edit: I am definitely telling him. Just not sure how to approach it/initiate it.

TL;DR: Guy kissed me when I didn’t want to and I am afraid to tell boyfriend

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4 thoughts on “A guy tried to kiss me [24F] when I didn’t want to and I have a boyfriend[25M] of 5 months

  1. moongirl12 March 14, 2018 / 3:05 pm

    Just tell him. You have a witness. You didn’t initiate this, and if your BF punishes you for someone else being a creep then he’s not worth being in a relationship with.

  2. bippertybobbertyhat March 14, 2018 / 3:05 pm

    If you don’t tell him and he finds out, he’s going to think you’re hiding something.

    Be honest with him. Your friend saw it and can vouch for you.

    Better for him to hear it from you, and you explaining how it happened from your perspective, than someone else.

    Tell him exactly what you said here. You were saying how you wished your boyfriend had come, the guy now knew your boyfriend wasn’t here, and he grabbed you and tried to kiss you, while you told him to stop.

    Unless your boyfriend is a jealous and insecure asshole, he should understand that you did nothing wrong here.

  3. John71CLE March 14, 2018 / 3:05 pm

    I’m really sorry that this happened to you. Many people have some serious boundary/consent issues. You didn’t do anything wrong, and your boyfriend should agree. He may be hurt that someone hit on you in the first place, but once he gets over the shock of it he shouldn’t have any reason to be angry with you

  4. cartwheel92 March 14, 2018 / 3:05 pm

    Tell him. It’s hard but preface it with “I have something I need to tell you but I’m nervous”. If he’s a decent guy he will believe you. You did nothing wrong and the guy who kissed you was a complete ass.

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