Hello reddit . so this is my story.
i met this lovely lady almost 3 years ago, in a party. since we liked each other we got in a relationship. twas beautiful and all till’ I had to move to another city for work reasons(by then we were together almost a year). since she has to take care of her mother she couldn’t come with me. so we tried long-distance; it didn’t work out at all, we missed each other a lot. so for a couple of months. we just chatted as friends and sometimes visit each otherr(and of course we had to hookup.sigh.).
I got in a couple of relationships after that, but those never worked out. Despite that, we were still in touch sometimes and sometimes hookup.
we started to grow feelings of being best friends rather than BF and GF. but sometimes we still call each other to act like that.
Now she is starting a new relationship and I’m doing the same. I got the feeling that it’s the time to move on. but at the same time we still got feelings for each other so I don’t know what to do, I still miss her and her birthday is coming,
should I still be in touch with her or not anymore?
we don’t get over a 3 years old kinda relationship. just cause we live 6 hours apart . should I move on?
thank you for the advice.