So my wife told me she thinks she is pregnant. A small part of me is excited but a part of me is screaming like the ship is going down. I want kids but idk I guess I feel like I’m not ready?
She wants kids badly. Our relationship is strong to the core and I have no doubts about us but when it comes to the idea of children I freeze up.
All the what if’s. what if I lose my job then they’d grow up in poverty like I did. what if something is dreadfully wrong with them? how will we pay and care for them. what if they are more than money than we can afford? What if we have them and I find myself stuck where I am in this job that I dont fully enjoy and I’m doomed to live unfulfilled ]rofessionally? what if? what if? what if?
Generally I’m a make get messy “never tell me the odds” kind of guy. but kids scare the crap out of me. and i hate that im like that?
If shes pregnant I’ll be happy with it but I hate this heart rupturing fear I have. Because, if she isn’t pregnant it will break her heart. and I have a hard time even talking about it. help!?!?!
my wife really wants kids but I have alot of hang ups even though our marriage really stong.